The BED HOPPING TOAD - "WHATEVER GETS YOU THRU THE NITE"

At first encounter with this "love specimen", we think we've arrived in a magical life of true romance & adventure.  This magnetic presence has a gift for motivating others & stirring enthusiasm as the spontaneous Energizer. 
The path turns slippery if vision and purpose get lost. 
When the Energizer falls into a hazy ego state, the excitement revolves around chaos & swampy drama. Bed hopping becomes the messy way of coping when bored and conflicted.
Let's Study the Bed Hopping Toad:

Hazy Self Image: "I Don't Miss Out"

Motive: To avoid feeling deprived or trapped

Characteristics:

Seemingly has arrived to "settle down"

Twitches restlessly

Is wary of stationary landings

Inspired by the thrill of romance 

Appears only for mating ritual

Normalizes cheating or straying

Chortles about many ideas at once
Appears and reappears explosively 

Constantly whirl-winding for greener terrain

Hops for shiny distractions 

Mists a hazy excitement

Spins chronic chaos

 Is "all over the map”

Known as the charismatic chameleon in the swamp
Slickly fits like a glove 
Taunts others "try and tame me"

A seductive presence
Constantly scrambling in a hunt for "hoppiness"

Calls out nightly about not being satisfied 

Slips out of sight easily

Lacks listening skills

Dominates all conversation
Demonstrates little interest in other's opinion
Spurred on by the next horizon
Basks in self absorption

Without intervention, will morph into a dormant unresponsive state

Swims on the edge of self destruction

Can only produce second hand love...